28 Nov 16
Most parents try to instill discipline, values and morals within their children. Remember those old PSA commercials that reminded parents that “It’s 8 o’clock. Do you know where your children are?” Today you don’t have to wonder anymore. Teens are more likely to have smartphones and post their daily activities on social media. If you monitor their daily posts you can know what they are up to to an extent. Now, what do you do if your teen gets arrested? Here is a list of some things you should do in case this happens.
1. When in custody, ask for a lawyer. This is the first thing that a parent should always do. Hire one or ask for a public defender.
2. Parents shouldn’t play lawyer. Even if you know your rights, a proper lawyer with experience will help the situation.
3. Your rights as a parent may be limited. Though some states require parental consultation for questioning, you have no federal right to be present when your child is questioned.
4. Cooperation and respect go a long way. The best time to explain this to your child is before an arrest or police interview. Cover these basics: Ask questions, remain calm and if you don’t know remain silent and let the lawyer take over.
5. The police are not on your side. In fact, they shouldn’t be on anyone’s side. The police respond to complaints and to what they’ve seen. Police officers try to open cases and to close them.
6. Communication between parents and teens is key. if you have that close relationship with your teen, communicate and get their side of the story. Also, let your lawyer know what you talked about.
7. Check their social media and let your lawyer know. At times what your teen posts can be an alibi or evidence.
8. Your Teenager is no angel; he or she got arrested for some reason. Part of being a teen is doing stupid and dangerous things sometimes. Teens will often do things out of character, and oftentimes parents can make a mistake with their own child’s character.
